Life is what you decide to make it out to be..

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Life! What is real meaning of life ? everyone have own perception about it and everyone wants to live it with full of happiness but all of us are in a dilemma of what to do to make it glorious and can it be possible to get what we want in life?

 

But actually life is what you decide to make it out to be. The greatest illusion that so many of us are living in right now is the idea that we are the victim of multitudes of forces, beyond our control, that we can do nothing about, and that the best we can hope for in life is to just get by. But the truth is, we have so much more control in our power than we even realize. Turn off the T.V. Throw it out or sell it if you have to. Quit stopping at Malls or McDonalds every time you're out in the car. You don't need the latest sneakers or fashion items. Read some books. Meditate and explore the inner worlds. Tap into those extra sensory abilities that you always knew you had but were afraid to develop because of societal conditioning and expectations.

 

Even if you take a look of all high achievers and  successful people, you will surely get it realize that the at what they are now is won’t happen by miracle but it happened with their own inner belief and dedication towards their dream to grow big, to do something, to make life meaningful. When they started, everyone was belongs to a small family….even if you take an example of Bill Gates ..he was the son of a wood cutter only, Narendra Modi…was a tea stall boy…in his earlier days. Like that so many names I can take or even you can memories but that is not important what I mean to say is….You are powerful, and nobody is stopping you from making the decisions in your life that you know you need to make. A much greater potential exists within you, just you need to realize it. Take the first step right now, forget or try to put aside all the outside forces and factors you think have got you trapped, and look within. Life is what you decide to make it out to be.

Excel With Your Dream!: Which is more precious...Gold or Silver

Excel With Your Dream!: Which is more precious...Gold or Silver: Very simple story;   There once lived a great mathematician in a village. He was often called by the local king to advice on matters ...

Which is more precious...Gold or Silver

Very simple story;

 

There once lived a great mathematician in a village.

He was often called by the local king to advice on matters related to the economy.

His reputation had spread in all over the world.

 

So it hurt him very much when the village headman told him..

 "You may be a great mathematician who advises the king on economic matters but your son does not know the value of gold or silver."

The mathematician called his son & asked..

"What is more valuable - gold or silver?"

"Gold," said the son.
That is correct.

Why is it then that the village headman makes fun of you,

Claims you do not know the value of gold or silver...?

He teases me every day.

He mocks me before other village elders as a father who neglects his son.

This hurts me.
I feel everyone in the village is laughing behind my back because you do not know what is more valuable, gold or silver.

Explain this to me, son.

So the son of the mathematician told his father the reason why the village headman carried this impression.

Every day on my way to school, the village headman calls me to his house.

There, in front of all village elders,
he holds out a silver coin in one hand and a gold coin in other.

He asks me to pick up the more valuable coin.
I pick the silver coin.

He laughs, the elders jeer, everyone makes fun of me And then I go to school.

This happens every day.
That is why they tell you I do not know the value of gold or silver.

The father was confused.
His son knew the value of gold and silver, and yet when asked to choose between a gold coin and silver coin always picked the silver coin.

"Why don't you pick up the gold coin?"
he asked.

In response,
The son took the father to his room and showed him a box.

In the box were at least a hundred silver coins.
Turning to his father,
The mathematician's son said,
"The day I pick up the gold coin the game will stop.
They will stop having fun and I will stop making money.

Point to Learn from This:

Sometimes in life, we have to play the fool because our seniors and our peers, and sometimes even our juniors like it.

That does not mean we lose in the game of life.
It just means allowing others to win in one arena of the game, while we win in the other arena of the game.

We have to choose which arena matters to us and which arenas do not.

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My Motto...

I always prays to have:

1. Eyes that will see the best in people,

 2. A heart that will forgive the worst in others,

 3. A mind that will allow you to forget the bad things that have happened and

 4. A soul that will never let you lose faith...

My motto in life is to Share Positivity, Be Strong, Keep Faith in your work and your God.

A little time to settle down on at its own...

Sometimes we feel disturb and comfortless, feels cheated badly and even a small noise irritate us........what should we do at such moment ,on this question a very good story coming in my mind......n want to share it with you and that is...

once a big saint with some of his followers walking from one place to another in search of meaning of life, that saint felt thirsty and want some water to drink ...,he told one of his follower(disciple) to bring some water from a small lake which they saw while moving,

The disciple walked up to the lake. but he noticed that some people were washing clothes in the water and, right at that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake. As a result, the water became very muddy, very turbid. So he came back and told Saint, “The water in there is very muddy. I don’t think it is fit to drink.”

After about half an hour, again Saint asked the same disciple to go back to the lake and get him some water to drink. The disciple obediently went back to the lake. This time he found that the lake had absolutely clear water in it. The mud had settled down and the water above it looked clear. So he collected some water in a pot and brought it to Saint.

Saint looked at the water, and then he looked up at the disciple and said, “See what you did to make the water clean. You let it be ... and the mud settled down on its own – and you got clear water...

what moral i want to show you is:-

our mind is also like that. When it is disturbed, just let it be. Give it a little time. It will settle down on its own. we don’t have to put in any effort to calm it down. It will happen. It is effortless.” If we try then it ll not happen, but if we give some time, it will automatically calm.

so when you or someone feel disturb just give some time to yourself or to that person ,all bad things ll automatically settle down but if we forcefully try to get some peace when you or someone is disturb then you ll only get muddy water !!!!!!!

In life everyone want to make money, reason of each and every ones is different, some want to maintain their life style, some want to improve their life style, some want to establish their name and prove their self .

But their are some folks also who don't know how to make money so they start saving money with scarifies some small happiness in their life, but they forget that life is ones only and its also important to live life coz its only once.

If you keep money in locker and open it after some period it will be same as it was previously but when u start realise that Money is like a seed ,if u in plant it & water it of your hard working and dedicational activities, then it will grow like anything and gives you fruits behind your imagination. so stop saving and start working.

Two ways to be happy...

Just find time for yourself !

YOURSELF........

Have you ever lived for yourself...............for whatever you want............for your own,inner feelings and simply enjoyed being alive ?
There are so many people in your life, so many relations, so many responsibilities........you have to fulfill but you ever spent a day with yourself,with you and only you,appreciating yourself,loving yourself,loving your thoughts,your emotio...ns...... .for who you are? Have you ever?

Actually i know out of you most of people will say that life is so busy we dont have time for all this thing and specially housewifes ll definately say that taking care of family,husband,childrens and all other responsibilities .......where is the time to think about all this.

Its not about time or responsibilities ,no one in this world is so busy.............only its about priority ..........in our life, we have given much importance to each and every small aspect but we dont have time for our self.

I request to everyone that just think about yourself and specially husbands ,think about your beloved wifes also................she devoted her life to you and now its your turn to think about her and ask her about her dream!

 Dear ,do you remember who you used to be before you become the person that you are now ? Start realise yourself ,your dream ...........and take some moment for yourself.

All big big achievers we admire and we read about them everytime but we dont have time to read about our own feeling,our own heart....whats all this.Realy speaking all big people never think about others but about their own feelings and they spend more time with their own self.

Thought for a while ,and after that if you realised that you never did this then Sorry to say but you lost everything because you LOST YOURSELF !

So many big people ........take an example of Rajnikant.......bus conductor....todays superstar......how he become this?

MS Dhoni................T.C.............Indian Cricket team captain.
.............there are so many examples and so many people if you think like this who make History..........but who push them to make history ..........its nothing but their inner soul.So there is no other friend of yours other than yourself.

Just follow your dreams,you never know how high you can soar,until you try and give time to yourself.

So spread your wings and fly and fly .......Paint the sky with the colors of your own choice,Beauty awaits you.....Beneath every twinkling star ,for you have many surprises that will take you far!

you just have to take some time for yourself and i hope you never forget how precious you are !!!!!!!!!!!

Recognize your inner voice...

Create Wow Factor....

Nothing remains far..

The biggest adventure you can ever take is to …making a continuous move towards your dreams by taking all courageous steps and turning obstacle into opportunities.

Everyone must and should have all these qualities to develop oneself.

Be good to yourself too...

be a big visionary...nothing is impossible...listen to your inner voice

To be a high achiever dream big...be a big visionary

 

 

If you take any example out of all high achievers,  you will surely came to know that truly awesome, hard-won accomplishments only happen with a result of thoughtful self-reflection, planning, focused effort and determined approach towards inner voice, consistently reviewing the goals and working on that by being with own self. So there is no other friend of yours than your own self.

Excel With Your Dream!: Be brave ...to know yourself better!

Excel With Your Dream!: Be brave ...to know yourself better!: There are so many ways to be brave...to be courageous in this world. The importance of each step of yours is only known to you. Sometimes b...

Be brave ...to know yourself better!

There are so many ways to be brave...to be courageous in this world. The importance of each step of yours is only known to you. Sometimes bravery involves laying down your life for something bigger than yourself, or for someone else. Sometimes it involves giving up everything you have ever known, or everyone you have ever loved, for the sake of something greater.

But somewhere, matters of the heart continues to be under somewhat tough influences as our inner dreams and emotions are likely to be misunderstood by us only.

　

And somewhere this inner conflict to honour the gift we’ve been given by god, to be grateful enough to this, find at least a few minutes each day to do something to nourish our heart and soul, demands to think again and again. This decision is always pending because our mind says one thing while our heart says another.

Today make a commitment with yourself to be brave to achieve...what your inner heart desire!
That is the sort of bravery you must have now...to grow in life!

New Hope...

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Every Day ...we get a new start...

A single from nature....that there is a lot of happiness...

we get a chance to do something...to be different...forget the past and start to something new...

A new day gives a chance to change...to be better...to be awesome...

Get the single properly...forget the past...past is past..

start a new day.. with new hope...New Belief...get on for the the beautiful Future ahead!

An easy way to develop yourself...

Today, Make Someone's Day !

Make Someone`s Day !


“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” – Really we can start it my simply giving a sweet smile to someone.
We can't help everyone, but everyone can help someone. With a simple smile on our face we can make someone`s day. This is the power of god`s gift. We all always says that really i want to something for someone, but i don't have money and time otherwise I will definitely makes someone`s life, but to make someone`s life or day you don't need money or even your time also ....just a Smile is enough!

One of my friend told me today that with 100 rupee note or 1000 rupee. Spending on food or on something, whatever may be, we can definitely feel happy for some period but what after some period…………is that 1000 Rupee food or cloths make us happy for life long …….my answer was no, we cant be happy for longer period coz as time goes after some period we again need food or cloths……and what we took some period before will be of no value after some period,
then he said but if u give a smile on someone`s face with money or without use of money also (by helping or doing something awesome for him) then what happiness will last forever in our heart and that one others heart too and always you will also feel happy for what you deed for someone and even that person will cherish all what u did for him in his hard time.
Heart is a very beautiful gift of god ,which receives everything and kept in heart forever ,and even with a small-small things also we can make it happy, its an amazing device of the body, so start working for its happiness, whatever makes u and your surrounding people pleasant start doing that.
I know we can't help everyone, but everyone can help someone. What a man does for others, not what they do for him, gives him immortality.
A smile costs nothing, but gives much. It enriches those who receive, without making poorer those who gives it .It takes a moment only, but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever and that’s really counts much. Even if you don’t have anything to do for someone, but definitely you have a sweet smile to give someone. It doesn`t cost you anything and it doesn`t take much time of yours also. So you can start improving yours and others world also with a simple smile.
None is so rich or mighty that he can get along without it, and none is so poor, but that he can be made rich by it. A Smile creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in business, and is the countersign of friendship.
It brings rest to the weary, cheer to the discouraged, sunshine to the sad, and it is nature's best antidote for trouble.
We are always worried about our precious ornaments or some thing else, but here it doesn`t need any worry. Because it cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is of no value to anyone, until it is given away.
Some people are too tired to give you a smile; Give them one of yours, as none needs a smile so much as he who has no more to give.

Think to go beyond...



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Life is once only and god blessed you with a beautiful heart, mind, body and soul.

 

So make an authentic commitment with yourself and get ready mentally, emotionally and physically to make this awesome life worth to have.

 

Choose your passion and excel in it to live a life you dreamed of and go beyond simply surviving.

A step towards...made in india

When a positive step towards your dream is taken place ... with full of positivity and courage... everyone will like to shake hands with you!

Be original...live original...

Just a one choice away...

Never drop down yourself...

within yourself only you will find esctasy..

strive to live impaccable life...

Something new...with some creativity...

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